update imsg

code: add wrappers for common failure cases Certain calls to well-known functions sometimes result in similar error handling across the code base. Sometimes there's a need to centralise the failure case. Achieve this for common wrappers to often-used functions. The transformation is achieved via coccinelle, commited with this patch. Note that coccinelle can be told to ignore code blocks with comment delimiters. This transformation applies just to telescope's code, and not any of the bundled depdencies in telescope (libgrapheme).

move imsgev & co to their own file This avoids bringing the dependency on ev on telescope-identity(1) and the tests as well.

convert telescope to use ev instead of libevent libevent is a very cool library, I like the APIs and enjoy using it. However, telescope is not as large and doesn't have as many file descriptor, so libevent is quite ``too big'' for our needs. ev started as a small event loop on top of poll(2) for amused, and can be used here too, it just needed to grow the ability to handle several timers, as we need quite some on telescope (in fact, we use more timers than fds!)

remove control_imsg_relay; unused

work around macos lack of SOCK_CLOEXEC / SOCK_NONBLOCK rework mark_nonblock so it sets the cloexec flag too and use it in control.c to avoid these flags. (which are expected to become available on a future revision of POSIX and are already widely available.) It's not an issue for telescope to do the socket/accept + fcntl dance because there aren't threads that can fork(2) (there are no threads at all!) reported by @sikmir at github https://github.com/omar-polo/telescope/commit/59ef79dd19611c7846b00427e6f2267c748ae290#r74498414

declare uri as static; while here improve legibility of the length check too

ring a bell when remotely opening a link + refactor it a bit move the logic into its own function.

pull in control.c, with some local edits to integrate into the project